Freedom in Commitment: Finding Happiness in Simplicity

 

 

 

I recently read page 186 of Mark Manson's book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck," and this is actually my second time reading it. In this section, I realized that life can be fulfilling and happy with very little. In a world of constant notifications and social media tags, having one friend, two parents, and fewer siblings can be far more valuable than having one million followers on Instagram.

 

Sometimes, there is happiness in simplicity. Those few moments we have can be enough for a lifetime. I don't know for sure, but I genuinely feel that this is the case.

 

Like many girls in their 20s, I've done many things to please others, to make them like me, and to meet society's expectations. But now, these things don't make any sense to me. They don't make me or others happy.

 

I've decided to choose the people and things that truly matter in my life. I'm committing to less, which means fewer friends, interactions, and everything else. Strangely enough, this choice brings me happiness.

 

As the book says, "There is freedom and liberation in commitment. Depth is where the gold is buried. You have to stay committed to something and go deep to dig it up." I believe this to be true. By committing to fewer things, I'm less distracted and more at peace.

 

In conclusion, committing to less can be a source of freedom and happiness. We all should consider the things that truly matter in our lives and commit to them. Only then can we find the gold buried in the depth of our commitments.

"Vishu's Tradition: A Timeless Legacy of Customs and Values"

 

Vishu: A Special Day in Kerala Tradition

Vishu is one of the most important festivals in the state of Kerala, celebrated on the first day of the Malayalam month of Medam. It is also known as the Malayalam New Year and marks the beginning of a new year for the people of Kerala. The festival is celebrated with great enthusiasm and joy across the state and is an integral part of the culture and tradition of Kerala.

Customs and Traditions:

Vishu is a day of joy and celebration. On this day, people wake up early in the morning to see the Vishukkani, which is an arrangement of auspicious items such as rice, fruits, vegetables, flowers, gold coins, and a mirror, arranged in a pot or a tray. The Vishukkani is set up the night before by the women of the household and is meant to bring good luck and prosperity to the family for the rest of the year.

The first thing that people see on Vishu morning is the Vishukkani, which is believed to set the tone for the rest of the year. People dress up in new clothes, offer prayers to the deity, and exchange greetings and gifts with family and friends. The traditional greeting for Vishu is 'Vishu Ashamsakal' which means 'Happy Vishu.'

One of the other important customs of Vishu is the giving of 'Vishukkaineetam,' which is a token amount of money given to children and other family members as a sign of goodwill and prosperity. This is usually given along with the traditional sweet dish called 'Vishu Katta,' which is made from rice flour, coconut milk, and jaggery.

Rituals:

Vishu is also a day for performing various rituals and ceremonies. One of the most important rituals of Vishu is the 'Vishu Kani,' which is performed by the eldest member of the family. This involves setting up the Vishukkani and offering prayers to the deity.

Another important ritual is the 'Vishu Sadya,' a grand feast prepared on Vishu day. The feast includes a variety of dishes such as sambar, aviyal, thoran, olan, and payasam. The feast is usually served on a banana leaf and is meant to symbolize the abundance and prosperity of the harvest season.

Historical Significance:

Vishu has a rich historical significance in Kerala. It is believed that the festival originated during the reign of the King of Kerala, Cheraman Perumal, who ruled the state during the 8th century. According to legend, the king was visited by Lord Vishnu in his dream and was given a vision of the Vishukkani. The king then introduced the festival of Vishu as a way of celebrating the New Year and the harvest season.

Over the years, Vishu has become an integral part of the culture and tradition of Kerala. It is a day of joy and celebration, where people come together to pray, exchange greetings, and enjoy delicious food. Vishu is also a day for reflection and introspection, where people look back on the past year and make resolutions for the year ahead.

In conclusion, Vishu is a special day in the Kerala tradition, which is celebrated with great enthusiasm and joy. The festival is steeped in customs and traditions, which reflect the rich cultural heritage of Kerala. It is a time for family, friends, and community to come together and celebrate the New Year and the harvest season.